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Spencer County, Indiana

Documented in 2011.

This visit is dedicated to my late friend and shipmate, RMC Thaddeaus A Conner, USCG (Ret). "TAC" died November 16, 1990 while serving as a Deputy Sheriff in his native Spencer County, Indiana.

Conner came into the Coast Guard as a prior service radioman from the U.S. Navy. His first duty unit was the Coast Guard Cutter SEBAGO (WHEC-42), where I was a newly minted Radioman 3rd Class. I quickly learned my new watch supervisor had a superior level of professional ability and desire to pass his skills on to younger and more inexperienced radiomen.  While that is not a rare quality in any service, it is something special and always a joy to serve alongside enlisted personnel of this type.

I found out just how much a friend this shipmate really was during the first week of January, 1971. Cutter SEBAGO was one day away from an eight week patrol to the North Atlantic when my mother and father unexpectedly showed up on the pier. I hadn't seen them in several months and they had made a special trip from Michigan to see me. Unfortunately my watch section had the onboard duty for the one remaining night in port and my parents very long trip was going to get them nothing more than a short afternoon visit before SEBAGO sailed.  I was disheartened to say the least. 

Word passed through the radio crew about my situation and within minutes RM1 Conner had stepped forward to our Chief Radioman and volunteered to take my duty so that I could spend the evening with my folks.  Without a second thought I jumped ashore and enjoyed a full afternoon and evening with Mom and Dad.  It didn't really dawn on me the sacrifice that TAC has made for me and my parents until the next day when the lines cast off and I saw familes waving their goodbyes on the pier - my shipmate gave up the last night ashore with his family so that I could spend time with mine.  Rare? Special? Compassionate? You bet! Unusual? Yes, but not for TAC - he was always a giving person, willing to set aside his needs for others. 

Deputy Conner was investigating a traffic accident on a Spencer County road when he was struck by a drunk driver. I didn't learn of this until several years later when I was constructing a web site to honor my shipmates of Cuttter SEBAGO. When I visited Rockport to document the Spencer County memorial I rode up toward Santa Claus, Indiana to visit the Mount Zion Cemetery and spend some time at his grave. 

I didn't know exactly where the church was, so I stopped to knock on the door of a small house and ask directions. The lady that answered the door not only knew exactly where the church was, but had known "Sonny", as a youngster.  She explained that Mount Zion had always been known as "Conner Cemetery" locally, because most of those buried in the little church yard were somehow related to the Conner family. 

That lady was right. I found dozens of markers with the Conner surname and dozens more that lead the average visitor to the realization the one at rest was an in-law or related in some fashion.  My shipmate's grave is just a few rows out from the parking lot - the marker looking bright and new, and decorated with fresh flowers.  I notice that his mother and father are only recently gone, outliving their "Sonny" by two decades. I wish I had been able to speak with them before they passed, to tell them what a fine son they raised.

After a few minutes of remembrance I step back, come to attention, and pass a salute to my friend. It sounds corny, but I am happy to honor and render a military courtesy to a superior shipmate. I remounted the motorcycle and headed southeast down yet another lonely country road, looking only for another monument and remembering the friendships they represent. 

Sunset and evening star,
  And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
  When I put out to sea, 

- Alfred, Lord Tennyson

 

Rockport IN

All Veterans Memorial

Spencer County Courthouse
Main St at South 2nd St
Rockport, Spencer County, Indiana

 

 

Inscriptions

 

 

  

"A memorial to all
Spencer County Veterans"

 

"In honor of the
Revolutionary Soldiers
Buried in Spencer County, Indiana
Placed by Spier Spencer Chapter
Daughters of The America Revolution
1940"
 

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